How Do I Avoid an Abusive Relationship?

It’s not always possible to avoid an abusive relationship because abusers often hide the toxic parts of their personalities until it is too late. But there are certain indicators that you can watch out for. Start by asking yourself these questions:

  • Does this person have an unhealthy standard of perfectionism for themself and/or you?
  • Do they become irrationally angry over small issues?
  • Do they say things like, “you are the only person I need,” or otherwise hold you to unfair expectations?
  • Does the person experience extreme mood swings that have you walking on eggshells?
  • Do they refuse to take responsibility for their unhealthy habits or behaviors?
  • Does the person exhibit jealous behaviors?

These indicators do not always signify that a person is or will become abusive. Sometimes, a person who exhibits these warning signs is struggling with a mental or emotional health disorder that could require treatment. But if you believe abusive behaviors are possible or already feel hurt, humiliated, or insecure around your partner, it may not be a healthy relationship. 

No matter where you are in your intimate or family relationships, a domestic violence counselor can be a big help to you. Our therapist is here to help you identify unhealthy behaviors and transition to a more positive and happy way of life.
 

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